Brutal Honesty and Marriage

Here’s the thing, y’all. If you are married and are withholding any emotion or thought from your spouse – no matter how bad it may hurt them if they knew it – you have to come clean. Well, you don’t have to, but if you want an exceptional marriage, you do. You have to. Pretending to be okay does not make you okay. You cannot “fake it ’til you make it” in marriage. It doesn’t work that way.

To The Girl Who Is Finding Her Identity In him Instead of Him

Are you unhappy in your current relationship? Did you just get out of a relationship that you knew was bad for you, yet you find yourself wanting to go back? Have you been single for a while but just can’t seem to shake that one boy from your mind? Stop. Take a deep breath. Hear me out as I lovingly write that you, sweet girl, are looking for happiness in the wrong place. Pure joy, contentment, and peace will never be found in him – the current him, the past him, nor the future him. Pure joy, contentment, peace, and fulfillment can only be found in Him – The Creator of the universe. I am in the process of finding my identity in God instead of man, and wanted to share with you a few truths that He has been teaching me.